When our mother was first diagnosed with pancreatic cancer, everything felt overwhelming. Heather had spent over 35 years as a dedicated nurse, always caring for others, always the one with answers. But suddenly, she found herself in an entirely different role—a patient, facing a cancer diagnosis that was both frightening and isolating. In those early days, even logging into a virtual support group felt like a big step for her. She’d sit quietly, absorbing the conversations but rarely speaking, as the weight of everything settled in. The medical world she had known for so long felt strangely foreign from the other side, and it was hard to find the words.
But with time, and as the weeks went on, something started to shift. Slowly, Heather began opening up. Those support group meetings, especially with Craig’s Cause, became a lifeline for her, a place where she could talk about what her oncologist had said, share how she was feeling, and eventually even ask how others were managing. Our whole family began to join in, gathering together after supper to listen and offer encouragement. It became more than a support group; it was a gathering of friends, of people who genuinely cared about one another.
As her illness progressed, Heather’s connection to the group grew even stronger. When she could no longer speak for herself, my sister and I joined on her behalf, keeping everyone updated, letting them know how much they meant to her. They were concerned, reaching out with care and understanding that went beyond words. The support was real—peers who knew the unique challenges and heartbreak that came with pancreatic cancer.
For families and individuals facing pancreatic cancer, the comfort and strength found in virtual support groups can be invaluable. Organizations like Craig’s Cause help bridge that gap, bringing people together across distance and circumstance to share, connect, and find hope. These groups offer more than support; they provide a community that understands, a space where no one has to face the journey alone.
Peers with Pancreatic Cancer™ / Caregiver Peers
The Peers with Pancreatic Cancer™ support group, led by Patient Support Manager Erin, provides a space for individuals affected by pancreatic cancer to connect and share. Whether you’re a patient or a caregiver, this group offers a chance to check in, exchange support, share experiences, and discuss topics chosen by participants from the previous week. Sessions are held on Zoom, and registration is required for each meeting, with a maximum of 10 participants to ensure a safe, intimate environment for everyone involved.